Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Close-up & Go? Allah is the best planner.

We used to be have at least that one person who used to be so close with us. But who knows, people come and go. Ada orang yang kekal dengan kita & ada yang tak. If it's about family, family stay, always as family. But friends do come and go. so do boyfriend/girlfriend. maybe sebab pernah selisih faham ka, gaduh ka or ada bad memories in past yang buat some relationship tu dah tak rapat macam dulu lagi. and everything is in Allah hand. Berusaha macam mana pun nak selamatkan sebuah hubungan tu, kalau takdir bukan milik kita, everything will ended up juga. Sebab semuanya di tangan Allah swt.. But in case, what we can do is give our best and let Allah settle everything.

It's hard to forget the memories , even it's harder to forget, to delete the people who included in those moments. It's easy to forgive, hard to forget. But when you forgive, forget about it.(obviously you won't) But be easy :) everybody make mistake. in any relationship pun, slalu diingatkan to give and take and be honest.


Why is it so hard to forget something hurtful? because Allah wants us to learn from it and make us utterly stronger.

We still survive today and Allah has given us a lot of tests in our life to make us stronger and to teach us the value of something valuable. i mean, we'll know the value of someone or something which is good for us. in case, you know what's the best for you if you are able to face the same situation again. & you are able to make your best decision without regretting. But it's true, Some things change us to negative and some change us to be more better person. Some lessons teach us how to appreciate more. But what if you lose someone you really love? it's means, you need to muhasabah diri. Maybe Allah nak berikan hidayah & nikmat, in so many ways. Tiada kemanisan tanpa melalui kepahitan. Sometimes kita terlalu selesa dengan keadaan diri kita sampai lupa nak mensyukuri apa yang Allah dah bagi. So Allah bagi kita pengajaran & we should learn from the lessons. Everything happen for a reason.

Holding Grudge won't lead you anywhere. forgive and forget.

even if it's hard to forget, but be mature & think wisely.
memang senang nak cakap, but trust me, forgive and forget bersihkan hati kita. Klau nak forgive but still can't forget, it's means you still dendam kn? then, salah satu caranya ialah, bila kita ingat benda tu, doakanlah  yang terbaik untuk semua. kalau mengingati untuk belajar dari kesilapan, insyaAllah everything would be fine. But don't ever remember just to set on revange. it won't lead you anywhere trust me. it only make things even worst. tenangkan hati & fikiran, jauhkan hasutan syaitan laknatullah. Dengan niat, insyaAllah semuanya berjalan lancar. But real friends do talk with us to settle the problems, not talking behind us. Sit and Talk wisely. . Aku pernah menangis pasal kawan. Aku pernah di khianati. Aku pernah di perbodohkan. Tapi nak ungkit hal dah lalu kan, it's also a big part that give me big lessons for the rest of my life. Dari nak ingat kawan yang xmenghargai kita, baik kita ingat kawan yang sentiasa ada untuk kita saat susah dan senang. Real friend do exist. Mama pernah cakap, "kita tak mampu nak faham semua kawan, & tentulah semua kawan tak faham kita" that's why in order to get a good friend, we should try to be a good friend. Try to think positive about our friend. Bersangka baik pada orang lain takkan merugikan kita. bahkan memberi kebaikan kepada diri kita sendiri untuk sentiasa bersangka baik pada plan Allah swt.

We lose the one we love. he/she leave us broken hearted. But Allah temukan kita dengan orang yang buat kita broken hearted tu sebab nak bagi kita lessons la. Everything happens for a reason aite? sometimes they leave, just because misunderstanding, but if you think the person yang walk away tu good for you, give them time and space. keputusan yang terbaik buat mereka. kalau bukan kat dunia, mungkin kat akhirat. sebab apa tau, kadang2 Allah ambik sesuatu atau seseorang tu dari kita, dan biar kita melalui sakit itu, & Allah akan gantikan yang lebih baik lagi. Allah is the best planner in our life. Because Allah created us.

Unexpected kan? Everything happen for a reason, in order for us to be a better person and get a better thing in life. Allahuallah, he is the almighty. In whatever we do, insyaAllah, give our best. Minta petunjuk dari-Nya. Mohon iman yang kuat. Wuallahuallam. 

Not everyone likes you . In every number who likes you , there will always 1% who doesn't like you for who you are. Be real. Be good. Why bother ? Focus on those who need us . Don't neglect those who appreciate us just because we focused on those who don't like us. Appreciate to be appreciated.We live for Allah , not people. Love For Allah is the major key of Human Love.


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